The To Absent Friends festival takes place across Scotland from 1-7 November 2024.
It is an opportunity to remember, to tell stories, to celebrate and to reminisce about people we love who have died. To Absent Friends, a People’s Festival of Storytelling and Remembrance is an opportunity to revive lost traditions and create new ones.
We welcome new events as part of the festival. If you’d like to get involved, check out the information and resources here: Get involved in the TAF festival 2024.
To add your event to this listing, or for any other questions, please email samara@palliativecarescotland.org.uk.
See below for information about some of the events taking place all across Scotland during the festival.
The theme for this year’s Scottish International Storytelling Festival is “Bridges Between”. The festival includes four events entitled “Tree of Memory: Honouring the Elders”, at which storytellers will celebrate the memory of elders important to them, and invite attendees to honour their own absent friends.
To Absent Friends resources will be available at these events.
Douglas Mackay hosts a celebration of all our honoured elders at the Tree of Memory, and shares a basket of blessings to all absent friends. Artwork by Katie Warner. Supported by the Scottish Storytelling Forum.
Buy tickets for 31 October here.
Tim Porteus and Donald Smith host a celebration of Edinburgh storytellers Jack Martin and John Fee. Share lives well lived and honour your own elders at the Tree of Memory. Artwork by Katie Warner. Supported by the Scottish Storytelling Forum.
Buy tickets for 30 October here.
Liz Tulloch hosts a celebration of her father, Shetland storyteller Lawrence Tulloch. Share a life well lived and honour your own elders at the Tree of Memory. Artwork by Katie Warner. Supported by the Scottish Storytelling Forum.
Buy tickets for 29 October here.
Claire McNicol hosts a celebration of Irish and Scots storyteller Audrey Parks, with friends and family. Share a life well lived and honour your own elders at the Tree of Memory. Artwork by Katie Warner. Supported by the Scottish Storytelling Forum.
Buy tickets for 28 October here.
Image credit: Scottish International Storytelling Festival
As part of this years’ To Absent Friends Festival, The Mitchell Library will be displaying the Essence of a Memory exhibition.
All kinds of things evoke memories of people who’ve died, and many of them come with an interesting anecdote. The To Absent Friends Essence of a Memory competitions ran over 2014 – 2016. It challenged people to take a photo and write up to 50 words which together evoke a story or memory of a dead loved one. This exhibition shows the winning images from 2014 and 2015. They will be displayed in The Mitchell Library as part of the To Absent Friends festival from 1st – 14th November 2024.
This is a free event – drop in – no booking required.
More information: Essence of a Memory Exhibition — Glasgow Life
Photo credit: Taken from the Glasgow Life Libraries website
As part of this years’ Wee Write Family Day, part of Glasgow’s Book Festival for Children and Young People, Glasgow Libraries are hosting a session with Helen Kellock.
Helen is an award-winning illustrator and author based in Glasgow, specialising in books for children. Her published works include: The Star in the Forest (2019), Out to Sea (2021), Scotland: The People, the Places, The Stories (2023), and The Wild Beastie: A Tale from the Isle of Begg (2024).
Helen’s picture book, Out to Sea, was shortlisted for the Waterstones Children’s Book Prize in 2022 and described by David Walliams as “one of the most gorgeous picture books [he] has ever seen.”
Out to Sea follows the journey of a young girl named Lara who is so sad after the death of her grandmother that she is carried out to sea on a flood of her own tears. When it seems like sadness has overwhelmed her entirely, she discovers a pearl at the bottom of the ocean that triggers memories of the many happy times Lara shared with her grandmother. With the pearl safely at her side, Lara realises that she is not alone and finds the strength to pick up her oars and row herself back home.
This event is supported by the To Absent Friends small grants scheme.
This is a free event for families, children aged 4+. All children should be accompanied by an adult.
To reserve a place, please visit: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/absent-friends-presents-helen-kellock-out-to-sea-tickets-1038886717137
Following an information event held in Demystifying Death Week (around the Bereavement Charter Mark), during Absent Friends Week, in November, Inverclyde Royal Hospital are providing an information stall of what support and resources are in place for bereaved staff.
We are also seeking feedback as to how well staff have been supported during a personal bereavement. These resources will include links to wider bereavement organisations in our area, as well as within the NHS. There will be space for staff to relax, and be creative with words, art, or to read or write poetry. Just because NHS staff work in an organisation where death and bereavement may be experienced more often, it does not mean staff are not affected by this in their own lives. This event will give staff time to just be and remember loved ones, friends, colleagues, and maybe even share some stories with each other.
This event is supported by a To Absent Friends small grant.
Join us for a special week of song-writing and recording workshops from 1-7 November at our studio in Glasgow’s East End. As a social enterprise dedicated to supporting aspiring musicians and creatives, we’re hosting a project that will bring together up to 25 local musicians and artists to collaborate on a meaningful tribute to friends in the industry who have passed away in recent years.
This week of workshops will focus on themes of bereavement and remembrance, offering participants a unique opportunity to process grief through music and creativity. Our professional sound engineers and studio space will be available to guide participants as they write and record original songs that honour their loved ones. This shared experience will provide a therapeutic way to express emotions and celebrate memories through art.
In addition to the music workshops, we’ll offer a space for visual artists to create pieces that complement the musical tributes. Our on-site café will serve free snacks and soft drinks to participants throughout the week. Follow us on social media for more details, and get involved in this powerful community project.
These workshops are supported by a To Absent Friends small grant.